Better to Be a Warrior in a Garden, Than a Gardener in a War

The proverb “Better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war” encapsulates a timeless lesson in preparedness, discipline, and moral cultivation. While its precise origin remains uncertain, the expression is often attributed to the Japanese swordsman and philosopher Miyamoto Musashi (1645/2022), whose writings emphasized balance between martial readiness and inner calm. The saying has since been adapted across martial arts, leadership philosophy, and personal-growth literature as a metaphor for integrating peace and preparedness.

This essay explores the meaning and philosophical depth of the adage through three dimensions: (1) the warrior in the garden as a symbol of disciplined peace, (2) the gardener in a war as a warning against unpreparedness, and (3) the synthesis of the two as a model for holistic human development.

The Warrior in the Garden

The image of a warrior dwelling within a tranquil garden conveys an apparent paradox: strength amidst serenity. The garden represents order, peace, and cultivated growth as symbols of one’s personal and spiritual life. The warrior represents disciplined readiness and self-mastery. To exist as a warrior in the garden is to be capable of defending what is sacred while living harmoniously within it.

As Musashi wrote in The Book of Five Rings, “You should be determined though calm; meet the situation without tenseness yet not recklessly” (Musashi, 1645/2022). This balance reflects a core principle of Eastern martial philosophy: preparedness without aggression. A warrior trains continually, even in peaceful surroundings, not out of paranoia but from respect for life’s unpredictability.

According to Bohrmann (2023), “A warrior in a garden symbolizes someone who remains alert and disciplined regardless of the situation. The garden represents peace and harmony, yet the warrior does not let calmness deceive him into complacency.” Such imagery parallels the teachings found in Tai Chi, Qigong, Baguazhang and other martial arts in which relaxed posture and mindful stillness conceal latent strength. In holistic terms, the garden symbolizes wellness and stability, while the warrior embodies resilience and the capacity to face adversity.

The Gardener in a War

In contrast, a gardener in a war evokes innocence placed in danger, peace without protection, and cultivation without defense. The gardener’s tools of the spade, water, patience and others, are useless in the chaos of battle. The phrase serves as a cautionary metaphor: if we train only for peace and neglect our inner fortitude, we may be unprepared when life demands courage, confrontation, or endurance.

Hershey (2023) observed that “the proverb underscores how context determines survival; nurturing skills are vital, but without defense, they can become vulnerabilities.” The gardener symbolizes individuals who, though kind and creative, may falter when faced with conflict, loss, or societal upheaval.

In the realm of personal growth, this imbalance mirrors those who prioritize comfort over challenge. As Weaver (2022) explains, Musashi’s philosophy of continuous training extends beyond combat: “Strategy is the way of living, not merely fighting.” In this sense, the gardener in a war neglects strategy, or the readiness to adapt when peace dissolves into disorder.

Integration: The Warrior-Gardener Ideal

The highest interpretation of the proverb transcends its binary contrast. The goal is not to choose between war or peace, but to embody both the discipline of the warrior and the cultivation of the gardener. This integration forms a holistic model of body, mind, and spirit, an echo of the Warrior, Scholar & Sage triad.

Domain	Gardener Qualities	Warrior Qualities	Integrated Ideal
Physical	Nurtures the body; gentle conditioning	Builds strength and resilience	Harmonious balance: supple yet powerful
Mental	Reflective; cultivates awareness	Strategic; decisive under pressure	Mind that rests in peace yet acts with clarity
Spiritual	Rooted, compassionate, harmonious	Courageous, ethical, unwavering	Spirit is both gentle and strong, compassionate yet steadfast
Social/Vocational	Cooperative; fosters growth and community	Protective; assertive leadership	Servant-leader who creates peace through strength

This synthesis embodies Wu Wei or the Taoist principle of effortless action, where the warrior’s readiness and the gardener’s peace coexist seamlessly. It aligns with holistic health philosophy: cultivating strength in calm so that crisis does not overwhelm you. Through disciplined training, meditation, and moral reflection, the practitioner becomes resilient yet compassionate and capable of defending peace without being consumed by conflict.

Philosophical and Practical Relevance

From a psychological perspective, this proverb parallels the concept of resilience, or the ability to adapt and recover from adversity (American Psychological Association, 2020). Martial training, like mindfulness and physical conditioning, develops the neural and emotional pathways that enable self-control under pressure. The “garden” becomes a metaphor for regulated nervous systems, balanced emotions, and clear cognition; the “warrior” symbolizes activation and readiness when challenge arises.

Philosophically, the saying embodies the principle of preparation through peace, a notion reflected in Stoic philosophy as well. Epictetus taught that individuals must train for adversity daily to live virtuously and serenely (Long, 2018). Similarly, martial disciplines across cultures, such as Zen archery or Shaolin internal arts, advocate cultivating internal strength so that external conflict may be avoided or resolved with wisdom.

In holistic health education, the warrior-gardener model integrates physical conditioning, emotional regulation, and spiritual alignment. A balanced person embodies both softness and strength, gentle with others, yet firm in principles, calm in mind, yet capable of decisive action.

“Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the mastery of self within it.”

The proverb invites each practitioner to cultivate a personal garden of good health, relationships, and purpose, while maintaining the warrior’s discipline that safeguards it. This is not a call to violence, but to readiness through harmony, a state where inner order becomes the shield against outer chaos.

The wisdom contained in “Better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war” transcends martial culture. It speaks to the universal need for balance between tranquility and preparedness, compassion and courage, peace and power. The garden symbolizes our cultivated life of health, creativity, relationships, and inner peace, while the warrior reminds us that serenity requires vigilance and discipline.

To live as a warrior in the garden is to embody integrated strength: calm yet capable, kind yet unyielding, rooted yet responsive. It is a call to continual self-cultivation, which is the essence of the Warrior, Scholar & Sage archetypes.

References:

American Psychological Association. (2020). The road to resilience. https://www.apa.org/topics/resilience

Bohrmann, N. (2023, July 19). Why It’s Better To Be a Warrior in a Garden (Meaning & Examples). Niels Bohrmann. https://nielsbohrmann.com/its-better-to-be-a-warrior-in-a-garden-than-to-be-a-gardener-in-a-war/

Hershey, J. (2023, August 25). Proverb update: It’s actually better to be a gardener in the garden. Colorado Gardener. https://www.coloradogardener.com/post/proverb-update-it-s-actually-better-to-be-a-gardener-in-the-garden

Long, A. A. (2018). Epictetus: How to be free: An ancient guide to the Stoic life. Princeton University Press.

Musashi, M. (1645/2022). The book of five rings (T. Cleary, Trans.). Shambhala Publications. https://dn720006.ca.archive.org/0/items/english-collections-k-z/The%20Book%20of%20Five%20Rings%20-%20Miyamoto%2C%20Musashi.pdf

Weaver, T. (2022, September 11). A guide to the Book of Five Rings by Miyamoto Musashi. Orion Philosophy. https://orionphilosophy.com/a-guide-to-the-book-of-five-rings-miyamoto-musashi

Somatic Calibration

Turning Bodily Awareness into Conscious Regulation

Across disciplines of psychology, physiology, and embodied practice, there is growing recognition that the body is not merely a vessel for the mind. The physical body is an active participant in perception, emotion, and cognition. The emerging concept of somatic calibration describes the process by which a person develops refined awareness of internal bodily states (interoception), interprets them accurately, and adjusts posture, movement, or breath to maintain physical and psychological balance. This calibration is literally, “bringing the body into tune” and is essential for resilience, emotional regulation, and well-being (Fogel, as cited in Taylor, 2023). It can be deliberately trained and strengthened through mind–body disciplines such as yoga, qigong, tai chi, and baguazhang, as well as through musical and kinesthetic arts that require fine motor control, proprioceptive precision, and mindful attention.

Understanding Somatic Calibration

Somatic calibration merges three interdependent processes: somatic awareness, interoceptive accuracy, and regulatory responsiveness. Somatic awareness involves consciously perceiving sensations of tension, breath, heartbeat, and alignment. Interoception represents the brain’s interpretation of internal bodily cues, mediated largely by the insula and anterior cingulate cortex (Khalsa et al., 2018). Regulatory responsiveness describes the capacity to modify one’s physiological state—through breathing, posture, or focus to achieve balance.

When an individual becomes proficient in these domains, they can effectively tune their body like an instrument, sensing when they are “out of tune” (stressed, fatigued, tense) and adjusting accordingly. Somatic calibration thus serves as a biofeedback loop connecting the physical and psychological realms: as bodily awareness increases, so does emotional clarity and self-regulation (Mehling et al., 2011).

Mind–Body Practices as Tools of Calibration

Yoga and Interoceptive Refinement

Yoga has long been recognized as a powerful practice for enhancing somatic awareness. Through sustained postures (āsanas), controlled breathing (prāṇāyāma), and meditative attention (dhyāna), practitioners learn to inhabit the body more fully, developing both interoceptive sensitivity and cognitive calm. Research shows that yoga increases vagal tone and improves regulation of the autonomic nervous system, thereby enhancing both physiological and emotional stability (Streeter et al., 2012). In the context of somatic calibration, yoga acts as a systematic alignment practice, and a method of perceiving subtle internal feedback from muscles, joints, and breath to fine-tune both movement and mind.

Qigong, Tai Chi, and the Subtle Body

Qigong and tai chi, rooted in Traditional Chinese Medicine, emphasize the coordinated movement of qi (vital energy) through the body’s meridian pathways. These practices require precise synchronization of breath, posture, and intention (yi), creating a cyclical feedback between proprioceptive and interoceptive systems (Jahnke et al., 2010). Tai chi and qigong improve kinesthetic sensitivity and help practitioners perceive micro-adjustments in balance, muscular tension, and internal energy flow, all core aspects of somatic calibration. A meta-analysis by Wayne et al. (2014) found that tai chi enhances balance, proprioception, and body awareness in older adults, while also reducing anxiety and depression, demonstrating how refining body mechanics concurrently refines emotional and mental regulation.

Baguazhang and Dynamic Calibration

Among the Chinese internal martial arts, BaguaZhang (Eight Trigram Palm) represents a dynamic, circular system of continuous transformation. Its spiraling steps, shifting weight, and changing palm positions require constant micro-adjustment of the spine, hips, and limbs. This active calibration of movement with breath and intention cultivates adaptive interoceptive intelligence, or the ability to sense and modulate physiological responses during complex motion. Internal martial arts like baguazhang promote “somatic intelligence,” where awareness, movement, and perception operate as one. Each turning step becomes a moment of recalibration strives to balance yin and yang, tension and release, stillness and motion.

Martial Arts as Applied Somatic Discipline

Beyond the meditative aspects, martial arts more broadly embody somatic calibration through functional stress-testing. The practitioner learns to manage fear, aggression, and arousal through breath and structure, while maintaining equilibrium under pressure. Studies show that martial arts training enhances proprioceptive acuity, sensorimotor coordination, and self-regulation (Lakes & Hoyt, 2004). This aligns with modern somatic psychology’s premise that body-based mastery helps integrate emotional control and cognitive clarity. Each strike, stance, or transition offers an opportunity to refine how the nervous system responds to stress, literally training the body-mind to self-regulate in motion.

Playing Musical Instruments and Fine Motor Calibration

Somatic calibration extends beyond movement disciplines into musicianship and performance arts, which demand acute proprioceptive and interoceptive tuning. Professional musicians display higher sensorimotor awareness, cortical plasticity, and fine-motor coordination than non-musicians (Herholz & Zatorre, 2012). Learning an instrument requires sensing pressure, breath, timing, and resonance, developing a nuanced relationship between internal cues and external feedback. In this way, musical practice mirrors somatic calibration: constant attunement between perception and output, between inner signal and outer sound.

Mechanisms of Mind–Body Calibration

The unifying mechanism underlying all these disciplines lies in sensorimotor feedback loops that strengthen awareness and adaptability. Regular engagement in mindful movement or performance retrains the nervous system to operate in coherence, balancing sympathetic activation (energy, readiness) and parasympathetic recovery (calm, restoration). Slow, deliberate movement is characteristic of tai chi or yoga and allows the practitioner to perceive otherwise subtle cues such as joint angle, muscle tone, or internal vibration. As these perceptions sharpen, the practitioner gains conscious influence over states that were once automatic, such as tension, breath rate, or postural asymmetry (Mehling et al., 2011).

Through repeated practice, this refined self-perception translates into emotional and cognitive domains. For instance, noticing a tightening diaphragm before anxiety arises offers a chance to intervene somatically to slow the breath and prevent escalation. This is the essence of somatic calibration: turning bodily awareness into conscious regulation.

Somatic calibration represents a modern articulation of ancient principles: that self-mastery begins with bodily awareness. By refining perception and control of internal processes, one cultivates a harmonious relationship between the body and mind. Practices such as yoga, qigong, tai chi, and baguazhang, as well as musical training and other precise movement arts, can act as living laboratories for this process. They transform awareness into action, and action into alignment.

Ultimately, somatic calibration is not limited to therapy or training, but rather it is a lifelong practice of attuning to the ever-changing signals of one’s internal and external environment. In a world that often prioritizes cognition over embodiment, somatic calibration restores equilibrium, offering a path toward resilience, integration, and inner harmony.

References:

Herholz, S. C., & Zatorre, R. J. (2012). Musical training as a framework for brain plasticity: Behavior, function, and structure. Neuron, 76(3), 486–502. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.neuron.2012.10.011

Jahnke, R., Larkey, L., Rogers, C., Etnier, J., & Lin, F. (2010). A comprehensive review of health benefits of qigong and tai chi. American journal of health promotion : AJHP, 24(6), e1–e25. https://doi.org/10.4278/ajhp.081013-LIT-248

Khalsa, S. S., Adolphs, R., Cameron, O. G., Critchley, H. D., Davenport, P. W., Feinstein, J. S., … Paulus, M. P. (2018). Interoception and mental health: A roadmap. Biological Psychiatry: Cognitive Neuroscience and Neuroimaging, 3(6), 501–513. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.bpsc.2017.12.004

Lakes, K. D., & Hoyt, W. T. (2004). Promoting self-regulation through school-based martial arts training. Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology, 25(3), 283–302. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.appdev.2004.04.002

Mehling, W. E., Price, C., Daubenmier, J., Acree, M., Bartmess, E., & Stewart, A. (2011). The Multidimensional Assessment of Interoceptive Awareness (MAIA). PLoS ONE, 7(11), e48230. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0048230

Streeter, C. C., Gerbarg, P. L., Saper, R. B., Ciraulo, D. A., & Brown, R. P. (2012). Effects of yoga on the autonomic nervous system, gamma-aminobutyric-acid, and allostasis in epilepsy, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Medical Hypotheses, 78(5), 571–579. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.mehy.2012.01.021

Taylor, J. (2023). What is somatic awareness? Retrieved from https://janetaylor.net/what-is-somatic-awareness/

Wayne, P. M., & Yeh, G. Y. (2014). Effect of Tai Chi on cognitive performance in older adults: A systematic review. Journal of the American Geriatrics Society, 62(1), 25–39. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24383523/

Physiological Effects of Cervical Rotation on the Vagus Nerve

Although the vagus nerve is not directly stretched or compressed during normal cervical rotation, turning the head to the left produces well-documented functional effects on vagal tone. The vagus travels through the carotid sheath along with the internal jugular vein and carotid artery, all of which are influenced by head position. When the head rotates left, the right carotid sheath experiences mild elongation while the left side shortens, altering the tension patterns of the surrounding fascia and connective tissues. Studies show that cranial nerves, including the vagus, transmit mechanical forces through their perineural sheaths, meaning that changes in cervical fascial tension can influence the nerve’s functional environment without producing harmful compression (Wilke et al., 2017). Additionally, rotation modifies the hemodynamics of the internal jugular vein, subtly shifting the pressure dynamics adjacent to the vagus nerve (Zhou et al., 2022).

Head rotation also affects autonomic balance through the carotid sinus baroreceptors, which are located bilaterally along the internal carotid artery. These mechanosensitive receptors respond to tissue deformation during rotation, increasing afferent signals to the nucleus tractus solitarius (NTS) in the brainstem. The NTS integrates baroreceptor input and modulates parasympathetic output through the vagus nerve (Chapleau & Abboud, 2020). As a result, turning the head to the left can modestly increase vagal activity, leading to decreased sympathetic tone, mild reductions in heart rate, and an overall calming effect. This mechanism explains why some individuals experience relaxation, lightheadedness, or parasympathetic settling during slow, sustained cervical rotation.

These modern findings complement traditional practices in Tai Chi, Qigong, and Dao Yin, where gentle head turning is used to regulate internal balance and calm the mind. Cervical rotation influences both the fascial network and the autonomic nervous system, creating a physiological basis for classical teachings on opening meridians, regulating Qi in the upper Jiao, and settling the shen (spirit or consciousness). When practiced with coordinated breathing, head rotation enhances respiratory sinus arrhythmia and further strengthens vagal tone, aligning ancient somatic wisdom with contemporary neurophysiology. Thus, the simple act of turning the head becomes a multidimensional practice of neurological, physiological, and energetic, that harmonizes the mind-body system.

1. Vagus Nerve + Carotid Sheath + Effects of Head Turning

When the head rotates to the left:

The right carotid sheath (containing the vagus nerve, internal jugular vein, and carotid artery) becomes slightly elongated, increasing fascial tension around the right vagus nerve.
The left carotid sheath slightly shortens, reducing tension.
The carotid sinus on the left side may be gently stimulated as the tissues shift and rotate, activating baroreceptors.
Baroreceptor firing sends signals to the nucleus tractus solitarius (NTS) in the brainstem, which in turn increases parasympathetic (vagal) output and slightly decreases sympathetic tone.
The internal jugular vein, which lies directly adjacent to the vagus nerve, experiences flow changes during rotation—altering the mechanical environment of the vagus nerve without compressing it.

This creates a functional parasympathetic adjustment, not a structural change.

2. Tai Chi / Qigong / Dao Yin Interpretation

In traditional Tai Chi, Qigong, and Dao Yin systems, turning the head is never just a mechanical action, but rather it is an autonomic, energetic, and fascial balancing maneuver. Modern neurophysiology now helps explain why ancient practitioners described head turning as calming, centering, and “opening the channels.”

A. Cervical Spiraling Opens the Upper Jiao

Gentle rotational movements lengthen one side of the neck while softening the other. In TCM terms, this affects:

Lung meridian (Taiyin)
Large intestine meridian (Yangming)
Stomach/Spleen fascia
Upper Jiao Qi dynamics

In modern terms, this mirrors changes in:

Vagal tension
Baroreflex sensitivity
Jugular flow
Cervical proprioceptive input to the brainstem

This produces an immediate calming effect, what modern clinicians call increased vagal tone, and what classical teachers called settling the shen.

B. Head Turning + Breath = Amplified Parasympathetic Response

When the head turns left while breathing slowly, three systems synchronize:

Vagal afferent signaling (mechanically modulated via carotid sinus)
Respiratory sinus arrhythmia (slow diaphragmatic breathing increases vagal firing)
Cervical proprioception (upper spine movement reduces sympathetic output)

This synergy explains why Qigong forms such as:

“Looking Left and Gazing Right”
Ba Duan Jin #7 “Punching with Steady Eyes”
Dao Yin head/neck spirals

are profoundly relaxing and centering.

Ancient language: “Qi descends, Shen becomes clear.”
Modern language: “Vagal tone rises, prefrontal cortex stabilizes.”

C. The Brainstem Connects the Energetic & Physiological Models

The vagus nerve’s nuclei:

NTS (sensory integration)
Dorsal motor nucleus
Nucleus ambiguus

are directly influenced by cervical rotation.

This provides the bridge between:

Energetic models: opening channels, balancing Yin/Yang of the neck
Neurophysiology: altering baroreflex input to stabilize heart rate, calm limbic reactivity

This is why even subtle head turning in Tai Chi or meditation immediately shifts internal state. It is both energetic and neurological.

References:

Chapleau, M. W., & Abboud, F. M. (2020). Autonomic regulation and baroreflex mechanisms. Comprehensive Physiology, 10(2), 675–702. https://doi.org/10.1002/cphy.c190015

Garner, D. H., Kortz, M. W., & Baker, S. (2023, March 11). Anatomy, head and neck: carotid sheath. StatPearls – NCBI Bookshelf. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK519577/

Wilke, J., Schleip, R., Yucesoy, C. A., & Banzer, W. (2017). Not merely a protective packing organ? A review of fascia and its force transmission capacity. Journal of Applied Physiology, 124(1), 234–244. https://doi.org/10.1152/japplphysiol.00565.2017

Zhou, J., Khatri, M., & Hasan, D. M. (2022). Internal jugular venous dynamics during head rotation: Implications for cervical vascular flow. Journal of Vascular Research, 59(4), 215–226. https://doi.org/10.1159/000524993

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Distance Between Words, Space Between Thoughts

The phrase “distance between words, space between thoughts” invites contemplation of both communication and consciousness. It suggests that meaning and wisdom arise not merely from the words or thoughts themselves but from the intervals between them, in the pauses, silences, and moments of reflection that allow comprehension to deepen. Just as music depends on silence to shape melody, awareness depends on mental stillness to reveal insight.

Silence Within Speech

Philosophically, language is a double-edged instrument. It enables expression but also confines it. Ludwig Wittgenstein (2013) argued that the limits of our language are the limits of our world; yet within those limits, silence holds a special power, where it points to what words cannot capture. The distance between words represents this silent gap where meaning crystallizes. In conversation, it is the pause that allows listening; in poetry, it is the rhythm that gives emotion room to breathe.

In mindfulness traditions, similar emphasis is placed on the pause between breaths or thoughts. The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali describe mental control not as suppression but as recognition of the stillness between modifications of the mind (citta-vṛtti nirodha). This stillness parallels the spaces between words: both act as boundaries that define expression while inviting contemplation beyond it (Feuerstein, 1989).

The Space Between Thoughts

The space between thoughts is where consciousness reclaims its sovereignty. Neuroscientific studies on meditation suggest that when the brain transitions from active thinking to a resting state, networks associated with self-referential processing, such as the default mode network (DMN), quiet down and allowing awareness to expand beyond habitual mental chatter (Brewer et al., 2011). In this spacious awareness, thoughts can be observed rather than obeyed.

From a Taoist perspective, this reflects the concept of wu wei, or “effortless action” that arises from harmony with the natural flow of existence. When thought pauses, intuition and spontaneous wisdom emerge. Lao Tzu’s Tao Te Ching reminds us that “the usefulness of a pot lies in its emptiness” (Mitchell, 2006). The space is not absence but potential as it allows all forms to exist.

Communication, Presence, and Mindful Dialogue

Applied practically, the distance between words cultivates mindfulness in communication. Modern life is saturated with noise. Such as digital, emotional, and informational, leaving little room for genuine listening. Yet, when one learns to pause before responding, the conversation gains depth. Marshall Rosenberg (2015) emphasized that nonviolent communication begins with awareness of one’s inner state before speaking; silence becomes an ally rather than an awkward void.

Similarly, in contemplative psychology, the space between thoughts allows the practitioner to discern reaction from response. Viktor Frankl (1959) famously wrote, “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space lies our power to choose our response.” This power to pause, to inhabit the space between thoughts, grants freedom from reflexive conditioning and opens the door to wisdom.

The Aesthetic of Intervals

Artists, writers, and martial artists alike understand that mastery lies not in constant motion but in timing and the intervals that define rhythm and flow. In calligraphy, the beauty of each stroke depends on the proportion of blank space around it; in tai chi or qigong, the pauses between movements express the continuity of energy rather than its cessation (Shahar, (2008). In both language and life, pacing and silence create balance.

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Distancebetweenwordsspacebetweenthoughts

Distance Between Words, Space Between Thoughts

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The Presence Beyond Thought

Ultimately, distance between words and space between thoughts converge in the practice of presence. When we learn to honor the intervals, whether in speech, thought, or action, we align with a deeper rhythm of consciousness that underlies all form. The wisdom of silence is not emptiness but awareness itself. In those spaces, the mind becomes clear, the heart receptive, and communication authentic.

To live with awareness of the spaces between words, between breaths, between thoughts, is to step into the fullness of being. In that quiet expanse, truth is not spoken but known.

References:

Brewer, J. A., Worhunsky, P. D., Gray, J. R., Tang, Y.-Y., Weber, J., & Kober, H. (2011). Meditation experience is associated with differences in default mode network activity and connectivity. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 108(50), 20254–20259. https://doi.org/10.1073/pnas.1112029108

Feuerstein, G. (1989). The Yoga-Sūtra of Patañjali: A New Translation and Commentary. Shambhala Publications. https://archive.org/details/yogasutraofpatan00pata

Frankl, V. E. (1959). Man’s Search for Meaning. Beacon Press.

Mitchell, S. (Trans.). (2006). Tao Te Ching. Harper Perennial.

Rosenberg, M. B. (2015). Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life (3rd ed.). PuddleDancer Press.

Shahar, M. (2008). The Shaolin Monastery: History, Religion, and the Chinese Martial Arts. University of Hawai‘i Press. https://archive.org/details/shaolinmonastery0000shah

Wittgenstein, L. (2013). Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus (1st ed.). Taylor and Francis. Retrieved from https://www.perlego.com/book/1557526/tractatus-logicophilosophicus-pdf